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New and Updated (9/02/06)

Men's Health Resources (2/19/06)
Article: On Working with Men in Groups (2/1/03)
Brief Thoughts on Various Aspects of Helping Men
Gareth's Corner: Short Stories for Boys and Men

Short Story: Crematorium (1/22/05)
"... the only thing that really convinced me that my father was gone forever ..."
Short Story: What Defines Being a Man? (1/22/05)
"Well, I've always thought that being a man ..."
Short Story: Fisticuffs and Pub-Life Eye Sores (1/22/05)
"It's been quoted many times that some men are lovers and others are fighters, ..."
Short Story: From a Smile to a Sigh, and the Other Way Around (1/22/05)
"What is the formula for "a good days work"? Well, let me begin with this ..."
Short Story: Three Times a Lady (3/17/05)
"Everybody has feelings. Nobody's carved out of stone ..."

Article: Me, Personality Theories, and Giving Birth (7/24/06)
My Opening Blog on Zaadz

Article: Humanistic Emergence 2006
(12/05/05)
Who We Are. What We Do.

Article: An Overview of Emergence 2005
(3/13/05)
"Humanistic Emergence
"
Visual Article: The Way Emergences Happen
(2/20/05)
The Five Steps We Use To Discover the Beauty in Life

Article: Emergence Therapy <> Traditional Therapies (3/14/04)
What Makes Emergence Therapy Different?
Brief Article: an Introduction to Emergence: 2003 (2/9/03)
Finding the Words to Describe Emergence

Quik Summary: "Emergence as a Therapy" (3/23/03)
A Brief Look for Therapists and Those Wishing to Heal
Quik Summary: the Layers of Aloneness Personality Theory (12/17/02)
A New Theory About How We Live, Love, Grow, and Heal

Visual Article: Is Aloneness the Driving Force Beneath All Our Troubles? (12/17/02)
the Layers of Aloneness: A New Theory of Human Personality

Brief Article: Knowing If You Are a "Healer" (2/17/02)
A Welcome Message to New Explorers

Brief Article: How We Talk: "Uncomplicated Conversations" (2/7/02)
Exploring the Message, not the Messenger
Brief Article: Love and "BLocks"to Love (2/7/02)
A First Look at "Emergence as a Therapy"
Brief Article: Getting Around the Emergence Site (9/7/02)
A Brief Look at How the Emergence Site is Organized
Article: How We Make Our Discoveries (7/3/05)
A Theoretical Outline of the 3 Emergence Views
Chart: Emergence: Theories to Therapy (2/3/02)

A Brief Look at How the Theories Became a Therapy



Visual Article: The Psychology of Mental Health and Illness (6/16/05)
Defining "Health" and "Illness" More Accurately

Article: Emergence Therapy <> Traditional Therapies (3/14/04)
What Makes Emergence Therapy Different?
Quik Summary: Emergence as a Therapy (3/23/03)
The Basic Concepts of the Therapy Described

Article:The Three Emergence Healing Modalities (1/21/02)
"P" Curves, Visual Dialogue, Direct Emergence (playing the "bad" guy)

Visual Article: Focusing Healing Efforts with the Three Modalities (2/9/02)
Knowing Which Technique to Use, and When

Quik Summary: the Five "Inner Visions" of the Therapy (11/14/01)
The Five "Scenes" Which Emerge During Healing
Article: What Makes Therapy Take So Long? (9/7/00)
How Focusing on "What You Can See" Prevents Healing

Article Series: [24] Why Plain Talk? a Preface to the Book (8/06/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twenty Four

Article Series: [1] What Makes People Go To Therapy? (2/26/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week One
Article
Series: [2] What Are My Issues? (3/05/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Two
Article Series: [3] What Makes a Good Therapist Good? (3/12/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Three
Article Series: [4] What Will We Talk About? (3/19/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Four
Article Series: [5] Are We Ever Done With Therapy? (3/26/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Five
Article Series: [6] Why Does the Good in Therapy Not Always Last? (4/02/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Six
Article Series: [7] What Causes Addiction? (4/09/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Seven
Article Series: [8] Why De We Get High? (4/16/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Eight
Article Series: [9] How Is Your Therapy Going? (4/23/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Nine
Article Series: [10] What Do All Good Therapies Have In Common (4/30/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Ten
Article Series: [11] Is Blame Always Wrong? (5/07/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Eleven
Article Series: [12] Therapy and the Mind Body Connection (5/14/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twelve
Article Series: [13] The Voices of the Mind Body Connection (5/21/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Thirteen
Article Series: [14] The Philosophy of Talk Therapy (5/28/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Fourteen
Article Series: [15] The Physics of the Mind Body Connection (6/04/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Fifteen
Article Series: [16] Mind Body Connections - How They Happen (6/11/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Sixteen
Article Series: [17] Hollowness in Relationships (6/18/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Seventeen
Article Series: [18] Addiction and Recovery - the Therapist's Role (6/25/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Eighteen
Article Series: [19] Managing Overeating with a Mind Body Speedometer (7/02/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Nineteen
Article Series: [20] ADD and Learning - A Mystery Solved (7/09/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twenty
Article Series: [21] Thoughts, Feelings, and Talking in Therapy (7/16/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twenty One
Article Series: [22] The Eyes as the Windows to the Soul (7/23/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twenty Two
Article Series: [23] Saying Goodbye - An Epilogue of Sorts (7/30/07)
Plain Talk about Talk Therapy - Week Twenty Three

Visual Article: Introducing "P Curves" (2/26/02)
Using "What You Can't See" to Discover Who You Are

Visual Article: The Basic "P Curve" Elements (2/26/02)
The "Red Lines"
Visual Article: The "P Curve" Process Elements (2/26/02)
Details of the Process
Visual Article: A Blank "P Curve" Form (2/26/02)
A Tool for Creating Personal Manuals
[1] "P" Curve Case Study: Unfaithful - Healing Infidelity 1: the Green Man (5/15/04)
The Man Who Couldn't Feel His Infidelity
[2] "P" Curve Story: Healing Infidelity 2: the Squinting Women (5/15/04)
The Man Who Couldn't Feel His Infidelity
[3] "P" Curve Story: Healing Infidelity 3: the Untrusting Women (5/16/04)
The Man Who Couldn't Feel His Infidelity
[4] "P" Curve Story: Healing Infidelity 4: My Infidelity (5/18/04)
The Man Who Couldn't Feel His Infidelity
Visual Technique: the Technique of Doing "P Curves" (coming soon)
Creating a Personal Manual Step by Step
Quik Summary: "P Curve" Basics (coming soon)
The Basics of Creating Your Own Personal Manual

Visual Article: Defining Mental Illness: a More Loving Perspective (3/17/02)
What Makes Mental Illness So Hard to Heal?
Visual Article: Why Aren't We All Mentally Ill? (3/31/02)
Understanding the Scope of Injuries: BLocks and Mental Illness
Visual Article: Visual Intensities of the Four Basic Life Events (5/9/04)
Getting Wounded, Overwhelmed, Reliving a Wound, Healing
Visual Article: Visual Intensities of Various Mental Illnesses (6/17/03)
Comparing Alcoholism, Mania, and Depression
Conversation: What is "Paranoia?" (12/19/04)
a Young Student Asks


Visual Article: Making Therapy Personal (10/27/02)
Why "Issues" Never Heal
Visual Technique: Focusing During Therapy (3/19/02)
The "Stairs Metaphor": a Tool to Help Guides Consciously Focus
Visual Article: What's Wrong With Talking About "Issues?" (2/10/02)
"Issues" and Emergence "Issue Statements" Compared
Visual Article: Creating "Issue Statements" (2/10/02)
Using Peoples' Own Words to Heal
Conversation: To Eva On Creating Issue Statements (3/5/02)
A Few Pointers on Using Peoples' Own Words
Visual Article: What Makes Cognitive Therapies Fail? (2/17/04)
the Two Most Basic Errors Therapists Make
Visual Article: What Makes Cognitive Therapies Fail:1? (2/19/04) unfinished
the First Error: the Assumed Sequence of Healing
Visual Article: What Makes Cognitive Therapies Fail:2? (2/19/04) unfinished
the Second Error: Mistaking Damage Control for Healing
Visual Article: What Makes Cognitive Therapies Fail:3? (2/19/04) unfinished
the True Sequence of Healing: the Emergence Sequence
Visual Article: the Path of Healing <> the Path of the Healer (3/5/02)
How the Circles of Blame and Issue Statements Relate
Chart: Emergence: Theories to Therapy (6/19/03)
A Brief Overview of How the Theories Became a Therapy
Conversation: To Rita: On What Qualifies Me to Help People (3/14/04)
A Bio of Sorts for Those Interested in Who I Am
Visual Article: Understanding TransGender Changes (9/1/02)
What is Really Changing Here?


Article Series: [1] Learning Greek - What Makes It So Hard? (7/24/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week One

Article Series: [2] Does "Doing Something" Prove We Have Learned It? (7/31/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Two
Article Series: [3] Why Is It So Hard For Us To Retain Things? (8/07/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Three
Article Series: [4] What Needs to Change About Education? (8/14/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Four
Article Series: [5] Why Can't We Unlearn Things? (8/21/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Five
Article Series: [6] The Myth of Grades and Grading - "Statistical Error" (8/28/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Six
Article Series: [7] What Dictates Our Curriculums? (9/04/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Seven
Article Series: [8] Learner's Block - the Mind at a Dead Stop (9/11/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Eight
Article Series: [9] Momentum as the "Balm" for Our Not Knowing (9/18/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Nine
Article Series: [10] The Funnel of Specialization - Early Education (9/25/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Ten
Article Series: [11] The Funnel of Specialization - Higher Education (10/2/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Eleven
Article Series: [12] What Kills Our Love of Learning? part 1 (10/9/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twelve
Article Series: [13] What Kills Our Love of Learning? part 2 (10/16/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Thirteen
Article Series: [14] What Kills Our Love of Learning? part 3 (10/23/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Fourteen
Article Series: [15] What Is A Student? (10/30/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Fifteen
Article Series: [16] Accessing the Alphabet (11/13/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Sixteen
Article Series: [17] Using Fractals to Test for Learning (11/20/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Seventeen
Article Series: [18] What Makes Teachers Boring? (11/27/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Eighteen
Article Series: [19] Seeing the Statistical Good in Schools (12/04/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Nineteen
Article Series: [20] Matching Kids to Teachers - I (12/11/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty
Article Series: [21] Matching Kids to Teachers - II (12/18/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty One
Article Series: [22] Matching Kids to Teachers - III (12/25/06)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Two
Article Series: [23] Matching Kids to Teachers - IV (01/01/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Three
Article Series: [24] What are Teachers Like On A Bad Day? (01/08/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Four
Article Series: [25] How Teachers Could Manage Bad Days (01/15/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Five
Article Series: [26] The Face Fractal - Reading the Truth in Eyes (01/22/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Six
Article Series: [27] Inside the Brains of Children (01/29/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Seven
Article Series: [28] Brain Learning Paths (02/05/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Eight
Article Series: [29] What Language Tells Us About People (02/12/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Twenty Nine
Article Series: [30] The New Education - What Would It Look Like? (02/19/07)
Exploring Issues in Education and Learning - Week Thirty

Article: On Conscious Writing (3/04/06)
An Essay on the Joys of Teaching English
Personality Test: the "Are You Bad At Math?" Test
(6/11/05)
Researching the Psychology of Mental Health and Illness
Article: A Master Emergence Practitioner's Response to the "Are You Bad At Math Test"
(7/10/05)
Continuing Our Research into the Psychology of Mental Health and Illness
Conversation: On Writers Block
(6/18/05)
Can Emergence Help?
Article: Eventful Emergence 1

A New Tool for Teaching Kid
s Who Hate Reading to Read
Visual Article: Getting Children to Want to Learn to Read (4/6/04)
the Beginning: Learning a Visual Alphabet
Visual Article: Teaching Children to Read: the Two Ways (4/6/04)
Conventional Learning (memorize) vs. Emergence (visualize)

Visual Article: Teaching Children to Read: Learning to Read Mentally (4/4/04)
"Parroting" as the "Death of Learning"

Visual Article: Teaching Children to Read: Learning to Read Visually (4/6/04)
Creating a "Visual Pronunciation Key"

Visual Article: Teaching Children to Read: the Two Ways (4/6/04)
"Picturing" is "Learning"
Visual Article : Emergence Master Teacher Curriculum (4/17/04)
An Overview of What We Explore, Learn, and Teach
Article: Discovering the Emergence Teacher's Perspective (11/2/04)
Learning to Teach Emergence

Article: "the Emergence of Words" (11/8/04)
On the Difficulties of Writing

Conversation: On Teaching English in Japan (12/14/04)
Thoughts on Teaching English Visually

Story: "A" is For "Apple" (3/14/04)
Healing Learning Disabilities with Writing
Story: "Bad At Math": Learning Disabilities with Numbers (11/02/02)
The Man Who Felt Nervous Around Numbers
"P" Curve Story: Kevin's Story: Learning Disabilities with Drawings (2/18/02)
The Boy Who Took 42 Years to Finish a Drawing
Story: "Especially Good": Learning Disabilities with Words (9/7/00)
Missing the "Good" in What is Said
Story: "L's Story": Learning Disabilities with Reading (11/20/01) unfinished
How She Reclaimed Her Access to the Beauty in Reading
Visual Article: Teachers and Students: "Ranges" and " Roles" (2/14/02)
Using "Zooming" to Improve Learning
Visual Article: How Learning Really Happens (3/19/02)
The True Sequence of New Learning
Visual Article: The Two Progressions of Learning (3/19/02)
"Healthy" Learning vs. "Wounded" Learning
Visual Article: Searching For the True Source of Wisdom (9/8/02) unfinished
"Connecting' as the Only Way to Access Wisdom
Article: Diagnosing Asperger's (1/1/07)
Changing our Focus from Symptoms to People

Article: Autism, OCD, Asperger's and ADD (11/7/04)
the Spectrum of Distraction
Conversation: Please Help. My Daughter is Autistic (4/2/05)
On Kanner's, Asperger's, and PTSD
Article and 2 Stories: Labeled "Hyperactive": ADHD (3/16/03)
Helping Two Children Who Couldn't "Sit Still"
Story: the First Story: "Alice and the Cat Food" (3/23/03)
Helping a Little Girl Who Couldn't "Sit Still"
Story: the Second Story: "Alex and the Dentist" (3/25/03)
Helping a Teen Who Couldn't "Sit Still"
Article: Closing Thoughts on Children Who Can't "Sit Still" (3/25/03)
Learning to Focus on the Aloneness

Article: from Social Deficit to Society's Asset: the Social Paradox of Asperger's (1/30/05)
Seeing Both Sides of the Asperger's Personality

Conversation: What's it Like to Have Asperger's (1/22/05)
a Young Mother Asks
Conversation: To Angela: On Attention Deficits and Hyperactivity (1/28/04)
Visually Defining the Nature of Injury
Conversation: To Lisa: ADD, Medical Labels, and Emergence (6/29/03)
Encouragements to Be Personally Involved in One's Healing
Technique: BLocks to Conscious Reading (coming soon)
Techniques to Overcome Learning Disabilities


Article: Relationship Addiction: Is It Love? (4/11/04)
the Power of Extraordinary Moments
Article: Can Parents Avoid Wounding Their Children? (6/05/06)
A Father Confesses to Having Wounded His Son
Conversation: Depression Help Suggestions (2/3/07)
A Few Thoughts on Where to Begin
Conversation: To Phillip: On Steven Covey's 8th Habit (1/16/05)
Accessing the Moment Between Stimulus and Response
Visual Article: the Baby Onion and Our Social Priorities(1/23/05)
Getting to Know the "Real You"

Visual Article: Social Priorities and the Ladder of Shock
(2/7/05)
How Our Social Priorities Reveal Our States of Consciousnes
s
Personality Test: 4 Positively Biased, Social Priority, Six-Question Tests
(1/25/05)
4 Quick, Emergence, Positively Biased, Personality
Question Sets
Personality Test: Another 4 Positively Biased, Social Priority, Six-Question Tests
(2/1/05)
Another 4 Quick, Emergence, Positively Biased, Personality
Question Sets
Personality Test: 4 Negatively Biased, Social Priority, Six-Question Tests
(1/25/05)
4 Quick, Emergence, Negatively Biased, Personality
Question Sets
Personality Test: Another 4 Negatively Biased, Social Priority, Six-Question Tests
(2/13/05)
Another 4 Quick, Emergence, Negatively Biased, Personality
Question Sets
10 Part Article: Introducing the Emergence Social Priority Chart
(12/2/04) (in progress)
The Ideas Beneath an Incredible Thirty Minute Personality Test

Article: the Social Priority Question Set Guidelines
(12/04/04)
Creating Valid Emergence Personality Test
Question Sets
Story: No "Lefts": the Perpetual Fight (12/7/00)
The Woman Who Could Not Remember Directions
Story: The "Psycho"Alarm Clock: the Grumpy Wife (9/7/00)
How Watching a Movie Can Wound
Visual Article: What Connects Us in Relationships? (8/31/02)
the "How" and "Whom" of "Who We Attract"
[1] Story: Sexually Molested: How Sex Wounds (9/30/00)
Three Girls, Three Assaults, Three Very Different Wounds
[2] "I Can't Face Men": Sexually Molested at 10 (3/14/04)
Wounded Before the Assault Began (age 10)

[3] Her Father's Mouth: Sexually Molested at 6 (3/14/04)
Wounded After the Assault Was Over (age 6)
[4] The Woman Who Hated Hospitals: Molested at 16 (4/29/04)
Wounded Throughout the Assault (age 16)
[5] A Brief Summary of How Sex Wounds (4/29/04)
Another Look at the Three Girls
Article: Connecting to People in Business Relationships (6/29/03)
Emergence and the Six Universal Principles of Connecting
Story: the Financial Focus presents (12/19/04)
the Bernie Book Cases of the Week
Visual Article: Through Julie's Eyes: Developing Connection Skills (2/7/02)
How Human Beings Learn to Connect
[1] Visual Article: the 1st View: the Personal Direct View (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[2] Visual Article: the 2nd View: the Personal inDirect View (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[3] Visual Article: the 1st Integration: Views One and Two at War (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[4] Visual Article: the 3rd View: the InterPersonal Direct (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[5] Visual Article: the 2nd Integration: Beginning to See the Two of Us (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[6] Visual Article: the 4th View: the InterPersonal inDirect (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[7] Visual Article: the 3rd Integration: the Beauty in You and Me (11/17/01)
A Theory of Human Development
[8] Visual Article: the 4th Integration: Seeing the Beauty in Everyone (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[9] Visual Article: The 4 Basic Mental Views (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[10] Visual Article: The 4 Basic Emotional Views (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
[11] Visual Article: The 4 Basic Holistic Views (2/7/02)
A Theory of Human Development
Story: Afraid of Blood Tests: Healing a Phobia (2/11/03)
The Girl Who Learned to Love Blood Tests
Story: Professional Ears: The Man Who Hated Vacuums (9/7/00)
Healing "Sounds You Hate"
Story: Wounded by Prejudice: Dr. K's Story (4/8/04) unfinished
Bicycles and Yarmulkes
Story: "He Almost Killed His Mother" (unfinished)
Wounded by Words Before He Could Speak
Story: No Decaf: Healing Anger (3/14/04)
My First Emergence: Discovering the Cycle of Three
Visual Technique: Cycles of Three (9/9/00)
The Emergence Self Healing Technique
Quik Summary: Doing Cycles of Three (9/9/00)
A Technique for Self Emergence
Conversation: A Sister's Story: Doing Cycles of Three (7/14/04)
How a Woman Healed Twenty-Five Years of Hatred Toward Her Sister
Story: Healing by Repetition: "Parroting" (3/14/04)
The Dreaded "Uh-huh-uh"
Technique: "Will You Do That to Me Again?" (coming soon)
Using Direct Emergence to Heal Relationships (also called "Parroting")
Quik Summary: "Will You Do That to Me Again?" (11/20/01)
Using Direct Emergence to Heal Relationships (also called "Parroting")

Visual Article: The Circles of Blame (2/26/02)
The Connection Between Blame and Healing
Quik Summary: " Blame" and "non-Blame" (4/6/02)
Identifying Judgmental Behaviors
Visual Article: the Path of Healing <> the Path of the Healer (3/5/02)
How the Circles of Blame and Issue Statements Relate

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